You know them. They are like leaches that hold on to their host and never let go. They are the individuals who suck every ounce of energy from the people and everything around them. When they enter a room the vortex opens up and one by one everything in their path is robbed of it’s life force, and next thing you know you aren’t paying attention to where YOU are going.
You see energy suckers ALWAYS have a trial & drama, and they are looking for people who will put their lives on hold to help them “fix” the latest situation in which they are the “real victim”. The problem with the “suckers” is that they aren’t really looking for help, they are looking for someone else to take responsibility for their problems and their lives. They want someone else to solve their problems, over and over again. So the truth is, even if you care about them and want to help them, you can never help them enough to satisfy them.
It is important to understand that getting caught in their vortex will only result in adding stress to your life, and it won’t leave you feeling the warm fuzzies that living a full and happy life is all about. Remember that suckers are toxic, and will lead you away from all that you want in your life.
Action: The next time a sucker tries to latch on, take a step back and recognize what is really happening. Ask yourself if this is where you really want your energy to go, and set boundaries that support YOU and your life.
You see energy suckers ALWAYS have a trial & drama, and they are looking for people who will put their lives on hold to help them “fix” the latest situation in which they are the “real victim”. The problem with the “suckers” is that they aren’t really looking for help, they are looking for someone else to take responsibility for their problems and their lives. They want someone else to solve their problems, over and over again. So the truth is, even if you care about them and want to help them, you can never help them enough to satisfy them.
It is important to understand that getting caught in their vortex will only result in adding stress to your life, and it won’t leave you feeling the warm fuzzies that living a full and happy life is all about. Remember that suckers are toxic, and will lead you away from all that you want in your life.
Action: The next time a sucker tries to latch on, take a step back and recognize what is really happening. Ask yourself if this is where you really want your energy to go, and set boundaries that support YOU and your life.
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